Ever since we started daily check-ins for orgasm control, I’ve had a much easier time obeying Bear and not coming without permission.
And, I still am mostly useless for hours at a time, while I play with my dick. Some way of putting a limit on that is needed, or I won’t get anything done around here when I feel unreasonably horny. The standard answer is “lock it away”, and that’s in the cards, sometime December.
In the meantime, I’ve suggested a nerdy game to Bear. It involves D&D dice!
Edit: This didn’t work out. A D20 is way too much. It’s been modified to a D6, with a “1” meaning “don’t stroke for a day”. Other results now mean “you can stroke”, but edging is out, too.
At the end of the day, roll a D20.
1: Don’t stroke the next day.
2-19: Bring yourself to the edge this many times the next day, don’t come.
20: Don’t stroke for the next 1D10 days.
I’ve gotten much better at getting myself to the edge and not over, as well. I am using my ball sack as an additional indicator. When it gets tight to my body, it’s time to slow down and pay attention and stop just as I can feel the very beginning of emission; wait until the sack is relaxed and loose again before starting another edge.
The idea here is to get close to orgasm, but not too close, so that I can still let my hands rest on my dick and balls and not come.
I had suggested an ultra-nerdy “obedience modifier” to Bear for the Natural 20 result: Don’t stroke for 1D10 + obedience modifier days, where obedience modifier is taking the number of days since I last came, and treating it like a D&D stat. As I am writing this, for example, that’d be 30 days since I came, hence a modifier of +10.
That escalates rather quickly, and Bear doesn’t want to put me in a situation where I can’t succeed. So, no obedience modifier. Maybe when the cage arrives, we’ll revisit that 1D10.
Bear is still thinking about this game, as in, whether he wants to go ahead with it. I have to say I love the idea of getting a little D&D into my dick play.
If you have played games with orgasm denial or chastity, I’d love to hear about your experience. What did you do, and what was it like for you and your partner?