Prince Albert Piercing: Stretch to 00ga 0.5ga, attempt 1

I did say I was eyeing 00ga … eventually. A little over a year later, I’ve hit a wall trying to stretch to 00ga. Or a version of 00ga: The taper I got measures 9.4mm across, where 9.5mm is a common 00ga size; the jewelry I aim to use, a screw-on titanium bead ring, actually …

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We attended our local MAsT meeting yesterday. The discussion theme was “Individuality in the community”. The discussion quickly got to the various ways that the leather / BDSM community can be very prescriptive, normative: Be a rugged individual who bucks convention, but the right way. If there’s one thing I want to say, again and …

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A few weeks ago, Bear ordered me to come. Again. And I asked him to please not make me. He looked puzzled for a moment, then obliged. As I’m writing this, it’s been a little over five weeks since I last came, and it feels a lot better than coming every 2 weeks. There were …

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