I’ve been denied for 6 and a half months now, and it looks likely that Bear will indulge me to extend that to a year. Or two. Or longer? I am alternately struggling with that thought, and deeply grateful. On the one hand, this is what I asked for. It excites me to be denied …
We hosted a MAsT session at our house, and one of the guests told us that at the entrance to the “Dungeon” at La Domaine, there is a sign: “It’s not about what you can take, it’s about what you can give.” I like that sentiment. It may seem self-evident if you’ve played with BDSM …
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Nothing much changes for months, and then a bunch of stuff does within weeks. Fun! We’ve been to a D/s intensive, “Delving into Power“, we have a new ritual and another one we’re going to experiment with, and I had my first-ever nocturnal emission. I’d call it a “wet dream” but it really wasn’t that. …
Four months of a normal sex life, being teased and brought close by Bear once or twice a week, four months without ejaculation, and I’m loving it. This is only the third time since we started playing with orgasm denial that we’ve gone this long. I feel accomplished in that I consider myself much better …
After my piercing closed during MRI, I am now back to 0ga. Can I just say: Ouch. Those last 0.15mm in diameter did not want to go through. Happily, the taper is a little wider than the jewelry, making the jewelry actually a relief. I’ll be traveling for a week in late August. I’ve reached …