Punished I had forgotten to take off the cock ring I wear around the house, when I was out taking the dog to the park. Well, more to the point, taking the dog to the park while the daughter learns to drive me there. Let’s say I was more than just a bit preoccupied. I figured …
This started as a comment on Thumper’s blog. I think I’d like to expand on that theme just a little bit. Thumper related (*) his difficulty of accepting pleasure from Belle for himself: I don’t want to feel like I’m getting sex for my own sake. Of course, saying that opens up a bit of submissive’s dilemma …
Sub Angst or “Dom me, you stud, but the right way!” Read More »
I want to come. I prefer not to. I think I’m better off when I don’t, on balance. After the last time I came (after 5 weeks and 5 days, for those of us completely obsessed with counting time), I started thinking about whether chastity made me a “better submissive.” Certainly, chastity makes submission better …
Spoiler: I did get to come the weekend of the last entry. Though that was more the cherry on the treat. And then pretty much the next day, I came down with the cold that Bear had had, and that’s been my week since – work, taking way too many unauthorized “I’ll get to that …
When it comes to male submission, there seem to be a few models available. In Femdom circles, the “male slime” and “shining knight” archetypes seem popular; in gay leather, it’s usually about hyper-masculinity (beards almost obligatory), and in gay culture as such, I have no clue. There is, in parts of the BDSM (sub)culture, a …