Tumblr served up text amidst the usual smut, and because that text is about chastity, I am interested and wanted to respond. Tumblr also really doesn’t do responses very well, so I’ll respond here. bound-indulgence muses on what the point of chastity might be, and talks about his own preferences to leave subs out of …
Tumblr response: What’s with this chastity thing? Read More »
That heading there is tongue-in-cheek. I think people should do what is right for them, and that varies widely. But, you know, it seems that orgasm control is trending right now. Read on. My therapist approves of D/s in general, and orgasm control in particular. Discussing my sex life with her is not something I …
When it comes to male submission, there seem to be a few models available. In Femdom circles, the “male slime” and “shining knight” archetypes seem popular; in gay leather, it’s usually about hyper-masculinity (beards almost obligatory), and in gay culture as such, I have no clue. There is, in parts of the BDSM (sub)culture, a …