The Internet Needs To Know: Bear had me come, the first full orgasm in one-and-a-half years and a bit. And, he told me he wanted me to come only when I had his cock in my mouth, so I’d associate sucking him off with the pleasure of orgasm. Fun. Orgasm control, not orgasm denial: I’m …
We hosted a MAsT session at our house, and one of the guests told us that at the entrance to the “Dungeon” at La Domaine, there is a sign: “It’s not about what you can take, it’s about what you can give.” I like that sentiment. It may seem self-evident if you’ve played with BDSM …
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Nothing much changes for months, and then a bunch of stuff does within weeks. Fun! We’ve been to a D/s intensive, “Delving into Power“, we have a new ritual and another one we’re going to experiment with, and I had my first-ever nocturnal emission. I’d call it a “wet dream” but it really wasn’t that. …
I was talking over the finer points of orgasm vs. “ruined orgasm” vs. ejaculation with Thumper on his blog – as one does – and he linked to a piece where he discusses the difference, in his dynamic, between what constitutes an orgasm and what really does not. I see myself in a lot of …
Failure attitudes are a thing around here. My attitude is “I haven’t failed, I just found 1,000 ways that don’t work.” Bear’s attitude is a bit harsher. He’s working on that. Heh. We’re some 4 years – is that right? – into orgasm denial without a device, and I keep coming when I’m not supposed …